Human evolve. No , not from monkeys / apes. At least not in my vocab. I mean, past 2000 years have you even seen one ape evolve into a human being? (Although I agree sometimes humans behave worst than apes / monkeys).
Human beings evolve. Change. Emotionally. Mentally. I know I have. This is like an updated list done from 2007.
So here goes, things I look for in a life partner.
- Loves God with all his heart
- Loves and will take care of is family and mine
- Will know how to be the leader in the family - a man worth submitting to
- Will love me with all of his heart as an equal and partner.
And other nitty gritty stuff:
- Non Smoker / Non a crazy alcoholic (Like Child Pugh B-C)
- Has a good sense of Humour
- Generous with his time, money, everything
- "Gets" me
- Gentle and has grace
- Someone who doesn't shirk responsibility
- Someone who has vision, knows what he wants.
- Someone who can handle criticisms.
- Someone who knows know to correct me/ other people with gentleness and grace
A beloved sister and dear friend of mine summed it up this way - "basically as the list simplifies at the heart of it you desire someone who desires God and you"...
And that's probably true.
